Category: Understanding Yourself First

How My Fear Made My Wife a Bitch: Are You The Enemy in Your Bed?

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“…We are speaking of opening yourself to the other human beings in order to promote human welfare. The monarch’s power comes from being very soft. It comes from opening your heart so that you share it with others. You have nothing to hide, no suit of armor. Your experience is naked and direct. It is…

Feeling The Fear Of Being Alone? Self-Love & Self-Acceptance Make A Lonely Planet Sacred

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What the hell is self-love anyway and what’s an insecure person got to do to find it? I’ve been privileged to staff dozens of initiation weekends with the ManKind Project and seen previously insecure, lonely men experiencing profound positive change toward self-love, brotherhood and self-understanding. There’s a curious step in the process though. When people…

Dreaming of a Non-Reciprocal, Non-Monetary World – Living Forward, Loving Forward, Sharing Forward

On an all too regular a basis, since the word went out about my healing gift and coaching / teaching practice, I’ve been receiving notes from people saying they are contemplating suicide. It’s overwhelming and it fills my heart with sadness for the state of humanity. As people reveal what makes their lives so unbearable…

Health, Business & Relationship Dynamics: How to Find Satisfaction in Life Despite the Struggle

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“People want you to be happy. Don’t keep serving them your pain! If you could untie your wings And free your soul of jealousy You and everyone around you Would fly up like doves.” –     Rumi I have a massage therapist friend who says she only has two thoughts when she’s giving a massage. It…

A Venetian Man, A Girl in Shorts, A Runner & A Jelly Fish – A Story of Love & Hate Relationship In A Self-Centered Universe

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This story is the one “you” write every day… and “I” witness… It goes like this… There is a beautiful black sand beach hidden from the world. Wild waves of Pacific Ocean crash into rocks and split into thousands of colorful drops that glitter in the sunrise… A Girl in Shorts comes every morning to…

7 Happiness Lessons & Age Wisdoms from An Old Dog: What To Do When Your Life Has Gone To The Dogs?

Are you a rescue too? Although I’m a dog, as you can see by my photo, I can empathize with humans who get adopted or maybe even more with foster kids who have their lives turned completely around by someone, the right one(s), coming into their lives with love they’d never known, or forgotten, existed.…

How To Find Your True Voice: Recipe Beyond Styles or Personal Brand. Open Your Pandora’s Box, Discover the Urge Underneath Your Repressions

If I say to you now “get naked”, can you easily do it? Can you step into your authenticity, fearlessly, fully and completely? Every day I see how people struggle to find their voice – whether they run a large organization or a small business… or even in their relationship with their loved ones… So,…

Unconditional Love vs Transactional Love – What’s the Difference in ROI for a Business Partnership?

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There was time when it was completely maddening trying to understand my wife and I think it’s because she unconditionally loves me. Here’s how it seems. My wife Olga won’t do anything I want her to do. I mean that. In the smallest of matters her response to my wants and preferences is often an…

The Anatomy of Pain & Violence. 20 Reasons Why A Man Suffers, 20 Reasons Why You Are Not Getting Happier & Why 12 million Women & Men Will Be Abused This Year

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I can almost feel how the title of this article triggered you. How even before reading it your inner fighter is ready to jump in, scream and scratch. Well, good. Now, let’s talk. Let’s talk about you before we talk about the others. Let’s talk about your world, the world you are living in and…

Better Business Management Practices From An Archetypal Stand Point: Why Your Venture is Just Not That Into You

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Do you absolutely love what you do and are a magician at doing it but the business doesn’t seem to be responding? Want to know what to do about it? I survived just such a bad relationship with my business and believe my confession here might help you find your answer. First though, let’s agree…

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